Any man who believes in that feminist-inspired hoax is in for a
The following article is a slightly edited version of one that was
posted to the F4L mailing list 2003 10 07.
You may have
seen the last part of this message already, maybe not, because my copy of
the message containing that, which I posted very early this morning,
hasn't come back to me yet. Perhaps the snoopers aren't done with it yet.
If that's the case, I hope they enjoy what they read. Still, the delay
puzzles me. I'm not even on the hit-list of Status
of Women Canada.
The preamble in the following is a commentary I used to introduce the
forwarded statistics to someone who is not on this list. I hope it
sweetens things a bit if you should receive the statistics a second time
now. If you wish to forward the message, go ahead. It contains no secrets
that need to be guarded.
The issues of concern in this article relate to unhappiness caused by
violent women in marriages that never broke up.
The appended statistics relate to the
consequences of men's status and position of "power" in society. They show
that women are not stepping up to the plate in equitable numbers. The
problems inherent in the forwarded statistics and explained in the related
web pages were not caused just by feminists all by their lonesome selves.
It wasn't even just feminists and women who caused those problems. If
things are to change for the better, men have to come to acknowledge a
major share of the guilt.
I wonder how many men permanently damaged their backs by living up to
the Hollywood stereotype that carries a bride across the threshold.
However, that is only a small one of many manifestations of the problem.
A multitude of methods have been devised and are being used by which men's
backs are being broken, literally and figuratively.
One of my friends led a down-trodden existence for the duration of his
long marriage. He pampered and coddled his wife and became a total slave
to her and their two boys, because she was given to having frequent heart
attacks. I must have heard at least 30 times during the last 25 years that
she had only six months left to live.
She could produce "heart attacks" at will no kidding and used them
rigorously to get her way. The consequence was that she literally
exercised and shaped only her bottom by permanently sitting on it and from
firmly controlled all other family-members' activities and minds.
I know the type well, having once been married to a manipulative,
selfish woman. She was able to turn her face blue whenever she wished. Too
bad for her that she had once bragged about it, many years ago, and that I have a good
memory. She tried it on me just once, and I merely handed her a paper bag
to breathe into. That cleared up her discoloured face in no time at all,
but it didn't do me any good. Although she never again used that
particular trick on me, she had far too many tactics in her arsenal, and
my refusal to be manipulated through many of them made her very unhappy.
However, although she eventually walked out of our marriage, that is a
good thing. Ultimately it made me a free man, even though it took me all
of three years after our break-up to realize that. Certainly, I paid for
that, big, but what price does anyone wish want to put on one's freedom? Uncountable
people throughout history risked even their lives to gain their freedom.
Mind you, the children did not become liberated from my ex. They became
stand-ins for me, far more pliable, and therefore all but one came to hate
me, although they don't even know me. That is quite common even in married families, where
children become a captive audience for indoctrination (as in
parental alienation syndrome) even though
their parents are not divorced and perhaps often seem to be happily
married. One never knows for sure, looking in from the outside. Take my friend's two sons (and his only granddaughter to
My friend's wife passed away a few years ago, and he still isn't a free
man. His two "boys" (one is 53 and the other one about 40 with both of
them still being at home and not paying a dime to support themselves or
their dad whom they both hate) still love their mom who turned them into
useless twits. They never had a chance to grow up.
One works but habitually is at the verge of bankruptcy because he
spends more than he makes and tries to force his dad into doing what his
mom always did with his dad's money, make up the difference.
The other is a dedicated welfare recipient who hasn't held a job for
more than twenty years and is now even cut off from welfare because there
is no evidence that there is anything wrong with him other than that he is
spine- and gutless. He's got a bachelor's degree in education that it took
him about 12 years to acquire, but he only taught for a total of about
three months. Having been coddled all his life, he found his students too
hard to handle. It seems that there are few things that are worse than
well-educated, dedicated welfare bums.
The only grandchild, a young woman by now, became thoroughly
indoctrinated against her grandfather, even though it was and still is her
grandfather who provided for her and her dad's support. However,
thanks to her grandmother and her dad, she has absolutely no respect for
grandpa and even demands that he should have respect for her dad.
How much is a man supposed to do when he laid his life on the line for
three ungrateful generations in a row in his family and that is not
Anyway, my friend is now 77 years old and deserves to be free of the
guilt his wife indoctrinated him with and of the state of slavery she
imposed on him. He still is a chauvinist but not a happy camper, although
he is quite slowly letting go. It took getting together with a real woman
who is not addicted to victimhood to open his eyes a bit. He and I can now
discuss things that formerly were taboo, and slowly, ever so slowly, he is
loosening the emotional shackles that bind him.
Does a man in our brave new world have to live for 77 years before he
has even a hope for a glimpse of freedom? That is worse than the way
things were in ancient Sparta, where the state apprehended all boys when
they were seven years of age and gave them back their freedom when
they were 60 years old. At least
in Sparta men of the age of 60 were then free, by government decree,
and were then respected after that by all of society. Now it is that
many children no longer respect their fathers, ever.
Another man spoke to me just the other day. He is married to a violent
woman who told me once that she did not like it that I so often bring up
domestic violence issues and -perceptions in our discussions. I asked her
why that is, and she told me that she is a violent woman who often flies
into rages during which she throws anything and everything at hand at her
husband, sort of re-arranging the kitchen. Therefore she prefers not
to hear about domestic violence issues. Her husband weighs quite a
bit less than she does, but, unlike her violence, that was not always so.
Well, that is not exactly logical behaviour on her part, but it is without a doubt a useful
and convenient strategy for her. Not only that, it is an instance of an
individual's expression of a very popular trend with which the feminists
firmly imbued all of society. Most people have their minds so firmly made
up about all of this that no amount of facts will confuse them: "Men
bad, women good. Men beat women. Women are victims. Men
exploit women, their children and the world. Women nurture their
families and the whole world." That is what feminist propaganda
feeds to us, but that is not how the world works.
When the violent woman's battered husband spoke to me, he pulled his
hair back and showed me a scar over his left eyebrow that runs right up
into his receding hairline, "See this? Seventeen
stitches my wife did that with a frying pan." Then he opened his shirt
and showed me a gunshot wound under his left collar bone, "Gunshot wound,
.306 -- my daughter did that." He still postures and believes himself to
be a he-man. It's a pity.
He's got two daughters. One of them is back home now, pregnant, after
she had left home for a while. The other one also left home, and she
already spent time in jail for car theft. I believe she is the one who
shot her dad (she never got arraigned or sentenced for that one).
He asked me why nobody wants to marry his daughters and said, "They are
pretty good-looking girls, and nothing's wrong with them", and he also
asked why our youngest son is not interested in them. I gave him two
reasons. First of all, given that his daughters like to give it away for
free, with zest and zeal, why should anybody bother to buy the whole cow
if a drink of milk now and then is given so freely to the needy? Secondly,
anybody that knows their circumstances knows better than to pick him up on
an invitation to play a round of Russian roulette with about five out of
six chambers loaded. It is a good idea for any man not to fall in
love with any woman unless he knows for sure and through personal
observation how she treats the men in her life, so that he gains an idea
of how he will eventually be treated.
I am afraid of what our society is getting itself into. Absolute
freedom (almost exclusively for women only) appears to be a recipe for
However, as the appended statistics quite realistically show, for all
that men gave up they got nothing in return. Nevertheless, men are still being
vilified for having all of the power they never, ever had to begin with.
Statistics that require no explanation
Table 1 US job fatalities for all occupations
(Note: Figures for 2001 are preliminary and exclude Sept. 11th terrorist
|Annual Fatal Job Injuries by Sex (USA)
Department of Labor
Bureau of Labor Statistics Data
It seems that the data base contains no information that permits to
determine what the numbers of fatalities are in the military.
Probably the feminist statisticians involved in compiling the numbers figure
that being a soldier isn't much of a job and dying as a soldier is
therefore not worth mentioning, and how many women die as soldiers
anyway? Still, it is possible to determine what the numbers are for police-
and other protective services.
Table 2 US Job fatalities for selected occupations: police,
protective services, guards, firefighting by sex
(Note: Figures for 2001 are preliminary and exclude Sept. 11th terrorist
|Census of Fatal Occupational Injuries
Source: US Bureau of Labor
|Occupations: Police, protective services, guards,
firefighting (all of the above)
||Fatal Job Injuries
Department of Labor
Bureau of Labor Statistics Data
The 1989 Montreal Massacre in the context of menís sacrifices, 2008
12 07, by Professor Jeffrey Asher.)
Detailed breakdowns for the various occupations summarized in the
Imagine how much of an uproar the femicommies would make if those
figures were reversed for the sexes! However, the figures are what they
are, and men are generally chivalrous and courteous (maybe: "red-necked
chauvinists" would be a better term to describe them), so they don't talk
much about what they do and sacrifice.
Besides, dead men don't talk, and history is written by the survivors
in power, the redfems.
men die early deaths by the
hundreds of millions more than women do, and that is because they let
the redfems and their camp followers walk all over them.
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